I’ve traveled quite a bit, and when I found myself planning a trip to Pakistan, I wasn’t sure what to expect. I’d heard mixed things: some people raved about the vibrant culture, while others cautioned me about customs and safety.
After spending some time there, I learned that Pakistan is a place of deep traditions, stunning landscapes, and unmatched hospitality. But, like any place, there are some things you should know before diving in headfirst.
So, here’s my first-hand guide on the do’s and don’ts of visiting Pakistan. Trust me, you’ll thank me later!
The Do’s:
1. Do Respect the Culture and Traditions
Pakistan is conservative, and respecting the local customs goes a long way in making your experience smoother. As a foreigner, it’s easy to get lost in the contrasts between what you’re used to and what’s happening around you. Let me break it down.
Dress Modestly: One of the first things I learned was how seriously modesty is taken. I had to make adjustments to my wardrobe – no shorts, and nothing too tight or revealing. Men should wear long pants, and women are expected to cover their arms and legs. It’s not just about blending in; it’s a sign of respect for the local culture. For women, bringing a scarf or shawl is a good idea, especially when visiting religious sites or more traditional areas.
Learn a Few Basic Urdu Phrases: You don’t need to become fluent in Urdu, but learning a few basic phrases can earn you some serious brownie points. A simple “Shukriya” (thank you) or “Assalamu Alaikum” (peace be upon you) goes a long way in establishing goodwill. I found that locals appreciated the effort and were more open to helping me or striking up a conversation.
2. Do Embrace the Hospitality
Pakistani hospitality is not just a myth. It’s a real, tangible experience that will likely surprise you. I was often invited into homes for a cup of chai or even a meal, even if I had just met someone. This is part of the culture, where guests are seen as blessings. My advice? Embrace it. Say yes to that cup of chai, accept the meal, and engage with the locals. You’ll find that these experiences are the most memorable parts of your trip.
However, there’s an art to accepting hospitality in Pakistan. While the locals are generous, it’s respectful to at least offer to pay if you’re out at a restaurant. Chances are, your offer will be declined, but it’s the thought that counts.
Also, if you’re invited into someone’s home, bringing a small gift; something simple like sweets or flowers – is appreciated.
3. Do Try the Local Food, But Be Cautious
Pakistani food is a highlight, no doubt. From biryani in Karachi to chapli kebabs in Peshawar, the flavors are bold, rich, and diverse. But – and this is a big but; street food can be a gamble if you’re not used to it. I’ve had both great and not-so-great experiences. While my taste buds were in heaven, my stomach didn’t always agree.
The trick is to be cautious about where you eat. Opt for places that are busy – locals know best. Also, avoid drinking tap water. Stick to bottled water, and make sure the seal is intact when you buy it. I also found it helpful to carry hand sanitizer and wet wipes, especially when eating out at street stalls.
4. Do Explore Beyond the Cities
Most travelers stick to the major cities – Islamabad, Lahore, Karachi. While these cities offer plenty in terms of history, culture, and food, Pakistan’s real charm lies in its diverse landscapes. If you can, venture out into the northern regions. The mountains in places like Hunza, Skardu, and Swat Valley are nothing short of breathtaking.
The beauty of these areas is that they offer a completely different side of Pakistan; one that’s peaceful, serene, and largely untouched by mass tourism. When I visited Hunza, I was in awe of the towering peaks, crystal-clear lakes, and the warm hospitality of the local people. Trust me, it’s worth the trip.
5. Do Be Patient With the Bureaucracy
Here’s a tip that will save you a lot of frustration: Pakistan runs on its own time. Things don’t always happen as quickly as you might expect. Whether it’s at the airport, in a government office, or even when waiting for your meal at a restaurant, patience is key.
For example, when I was applying for my visa, the process took a little longer than I anticipated. But in the end, everything worked out, and I realized that in Pakistan, things often move at a slower pace. So, pack your patience and go with the flow.
The Don’ts:
1. Don’t Take Photos Without Permission
This one might seem obvious, but it’s easy to get caught up in the beauty of the surroundings. Whether you’re exploring the bustling streets of Lahore or the serene mountains in the north, Pakistan offers picture-perfect moments at every turn. However, photographing people without their consent is a big no-no. This especially applies to women and religious sites.
Before taking a photo, it’s polite to ask. I found that most people were happy to let me snap a picture, especially if I struck up a conversation with them first. But on occasion, I was politely declined, and I respected that.
2. Don’t Discuss Politics or Religion
One thing I quickly learned is that politics and religion are sensitive topics in Pakistan. Even though you might be curious, these conversations are better avoided unless you know the person well. While I met people who were open to discussing these subjects, the majority preferred to steer clear of them. The country has a complicated history, and as an outsider, it’s best not to jump into debates or express opinions on these matters.
If you do find yourself in a conversation about politics or religion, it’s important to be neutral and respectful. Pakistanis are proud of their country and faith, so tread lightly. My advice? Stick to safer topics like food, culture, or travel – there’s plenty to talk about without diving into controversial areas!
3. Don’t Ignore the Call to Prayer
In Pakistan, the call to prayer (Adhan) happens five times a day, and it’s a deeply respected part of daily life. When you hear it, people may stop what they’re doing to pray, and some shops might even close briefly. It’s important to be mindful during these times. You don’t need to participate, of course, but showing respect by pausing and remaining quiet is appreciated.
One time, I was in a busy market when the Adhan began. The bustling chaos quieted down almost instantly, and it was a humbling experience. I realized that, in Pakistan, religion isn’t just a part of life – it’s interwoven into the fabric of society. As a visitor, observing this and showing respect is crucial.
4. Don’t Neglect Your Safety
While Pakistan is generally safe for tourists, it’s important to take precautions. One of the first things I did was register with my embassy and keep them updated on my travel plans. It’s also smart to stay in touch with local contacts, whether it’s a guide or a hotel staff member who can advise you on areas to avoid.
Common sense goes a long way—avoid traveling at night, especially in more remote areas, and be mindful of your surroundings. I always made sure to have a local SIM card with me so I could stay connected, and I kept a close eye on my belongings, especially in crowded places like markets.
The Final Word
Visiting Pakistan was an adventure in every sense of the word. The country is full of surprises, contrasts, and moments that will challenge your perceptions. If you approach your trip with an open mind, a sense of curiosity, and a respect for the local customs, you’ll leave with experiences and stories that will stay with you for a lifetime. Just remember the key do’s and don’ts, and you’ll navigate this fascinating country with ease.
Pakistan is a place where tradition meets modernity, and where the past coexists with the future. Embrace it, and you’ll discover a country like no other.
About the Author
Shahraz Ali is a dynamic travel writer with over five years of experience turning destinations into captivating stories. Known for his vivid storytelling and knack for uncovering hidden gems, Shahraz’s work goes beyond standard travel guides—inviting readers to truly experience the essence of every place. When not penning his next adventure, he’s either indulging in his love for cinema or experimenting with new creative hobbies.